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Galaxy Nexus.... Would You?

The very anticipated Galaxy Nexus, releasing exclusively to Verizon Wireless, will being shipped to store in the next coming weeks. I'm personally very excited for the phone and have even debated whether I would switch over to Verizon just to get my hands on the phone. Would you sell your soul over to a 2 year contact with the Big Red company just to play with the new Nexus or have you decided to wait for its secondary release on other U.S. Carriers.

I myself have decided to wait it out, I can never see myself committed to a such a locked down carrier and expensive at that. I'll look and hope for signs of a Sprint model release of the Galaxy Nexus and of course flash it to Boost Mobile. "I Love Being Contract Free!"

LOVE YOURSELF FIRST

Love and relationships are presented to us as this glamorous necessity at a young age.  If not first through a healthy relationship between our parents, then subtly through Disney movies with the beautiful princess and handsome prince that live happily ever after.  As a result, we grow up expecting the presence of such relationships in our lives with no clear instructions on how to attain them.  The truth is, there are no real instructions.  A lot of dating and relationships is just trial and error.  You encounter different people to help you discover your likes and dislikes, what works for you and what doesn’t.

I was talking with a friend the other day that was really down on themselves about not being able to find someone to settle down with.  They were tired of being lonely, getting rejected and disappointed and feeling undesired by the opposite sex.  After listening to my friend, I further realized the importance of loving yourself first to building a healthy relationship with someone else.

Nobody knows YOU better than YOU and your relationship with yourself should take priority over your relationship with anyone else.  If you don’t think and feel that you are absolutely amazing, then why should anyone else?  You don’t really give them a reason to.  You should know and feel more than anyone else what a wonderful person you are.  If you don’t feel like the wonderful and amazing person that you are, then you need to work on that first and foremost before pursuing a relationship.  Learning how to be alone and love yourself is necessary because you have to be able to be happy and love yourself when it’s just you.  Otherwise, you depend on the other person for that validation and unfortunately, sometimes people take advantage of that.  If you feel good about yourself, then it doesn’t matter who mistreats or rejects you.  At the end of the day, you always know that they are the ones missing out and not you.  It is so important to (wait for and) find someone that recognizes how great you are and values and appreciates your presence in their lives.  When you are dealing with people, especially outside of your family (but even sometimes in your family), you never know how long they are going to be in your life.  A lot of people are meant to be in your life for only a season.  You have to be careful about whom you invest your time, energy and emotions in, however you can NEVER go wrong with investing in yourself.  

If You Master Yourself, You Can Master Anything

The truth of life is that we all get curve balls. Things you think are going to work out sometimes fail, and things you have no idea are going to happen, do! Life is always an adventure and some days, it’s as if God is seriously laughing at your plans. When you have these surprises, keep in mind you do have some personal power! Remind yourself that you can empower your life and yourself. Realize that by choosing your response to any circumstance, you powerfully affect your future. 

Stop being a victim! 

Victimhood is for losers! 

Our society tries to program us to be victims and its bullshit. When you reject this victim thinking and take responsibility for your own life, you alter the circumstance and its outcome. 

The true test of your character is when the events around you are not supportive. Again, give up the victimhood. Sometimes we have to gracefully accept that there are things we cannot change and learn to live with them, even when we don't like it. In making this powerful choice, we do not allow the problems or current challenges to control us. The alcoholic’s anonymous program sums it up well with the Prayer of Serenity: “Lord, give me the courage to change the things which can and ought to be changed, the serenity to accept the things which can't be changed, and the wisdom to know the difference.” 

The next time you meet with adversity, temporary defeat, or failure, remember that you may have no control over the pain in the ass changes or unpleasant circumstances, but you DO have control over your reaction to these circumstances. Exercise this privilege by searching for the seed of opportunity, which is carried in every experience of adversity and sorrow. 

We must choose to be proactive in life, and not let life happen to us. We must be driven by our values and goals, not by outside circumstances. You do not have to be a victim of circumstance; you make your own environment because you are the creator of your life by using your thoughts and actions. Your greatness comes from within, so start today to capitalize on your own talents and potential. The emphasis in our life should be on developing the vision; to see beyond the current situation, develop mental control over our emotions, feel our own power, and assume responsibility for our future. 
I would like to leave you with an Ancient Proverb that sums up true power: “If You Master Yourself, You Can Master Anything.” 

If I leave you with anything in my life, I would like to leave you with the knowledge that you don’t have to be a victim anymore. Speak up and put yourself in the driver’s seat of your own life! 

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Letting Go

Have you ever wondered why you always end up getting hurt?  Have you ever wondered what you have done to deserve the constant lack of respect for you and your feelings?  Have you ever wondered why your kind and caring approach to people isn’t always reciprocated?

I have discovered the answer…in most cases, it is because people only treat you the way that you allow them to.  We have a lot more control than we choose to realize over the kinds of feelings that would cause one to pose the questions listed above.  We are not as helpless and powerless as we think we are.  As Eleanor Roosevelt once said, “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.”

The problem is we hold onto who that person was or who we want them to be.  We make excuses for their behavior.  It takes two people to have a friendship or be in a relationship and one person cannot carry that weight.  It’s simply impossible.  In doing so, it is inevitable that we experience the hurt, disrespect and lack of reciprocity.  Is it really worth it?  Life is too short to try to change someone that you know doesn’t want to change.  What you can change is them being in your life.  Of course, this is much easier said than done.  Letting go is one of the hardest things we face in life.  However, time is one of the most unforgiving things.  Once it’s gone, you can never get it back.  So ask yourself, are you investing your time in the actual person or who they used to be or who they have the potential to be?

Always remember, you are wonderful and amazing!  Anyone should be happy to share a friendship or relationship with you and if they choose not to, then that is their loss.  You deserve nothing less than the best.

 Very disturbing that i came across this on Facebook. To have nothing better to do with their time would be an understatement. This is a very biased Fan Page and it really speaks about us as a whole considering how many people are supporting and keeping the page going. However this just further justifies this country's "Need for Change" and giving him further purpose to be the leader of our country right now.So that he can work towards minimizing things like this. Its not even a Racist slur but just pure negativity. This descends back into a basic thing called Karma. You get what you put out, you put out negative, you'll receive in return negative and vice versa .& I personally disapprove of anybody wishing death upon another individual even in a joking manner, which this is not. Especially in these days when the Reaper seems to be lurking around every corner striking when least expected, lets live our lives and enjoy it to the fullest and wish the same for others.Your loved ones and people you don't know are leaving us every moment, lets not help this cause my putting negative suggestive influences as such out into the Universe. To some degree words do have power and influence. As a closing statement I'll just say "LETS RISE ABOVE THIS"